Everything in the universe is changing, only we humans fight back against this law of nature like. “Actually, it is impossible to achieve a change, we basically do not want to change and only a brilliant” look away to make the old suit and for us going new. However, we attempt this impossible again and again, sometimes even a lifetime. We want to change the result and manipulate the effect, without wanting to change actually also the reasons. We therefore expect an other, changed, and of course positivere effect repeatedly gleichbleiBender the same cause and action. This is in a clear light, paradox, utopisch, and impossible. We want to not explore the reality in honest self-reflection, but want to find just the recipe for success, which makes old, often no longer functioning, but usual for us once again viable.
A very good and vivid example of this is dealing with addiction. The addiction is only medium secondarily important, since it has no influence on the addictive behavior. The addictive behavior is especially davon, not wanting to accept the reality and to avoid the Bewusstwerdung of reality. Beginning a history of addiction mostly a desire for general relief, the desire for a piece of peace or even the tendons is after Stilling by often for years entsagter satisfaction of basic needs. Looking after fulfilling all those Ermangelungen we meet then on one our way forks of a material or non-material substance”, such as drugs, alcohol, work, relationship, sex, sports or Internet surfing. We therefore have the first contact with anything”, initially giving some relief us while applying. Although we get isn’t that what we really crave in the individual case, but the contact to the emotional level is successfully stopped, and we no longer feel pain our ungestillten means the heart.